(You know, I really did, and do like a lot of people here.
But I'm not going to pretend that this is okay.
It's not, half everyone in this group plays a victim and the other half plays the offender. And I've seen the gossip, and shit that goes down in this group over the this triggering crap. You all want to avoid conflict SO badly but by attacking anyone who thinks differently then you.
This is NOT a place for everyone to speak their mind, despite how great Rachelle herself is. I'm getting sick of hearing about it.
If someone says or does something you don't like we get labelled as toxic or that we're bad people who intentionally cause problems.
The world isn't nice, there isn't a place you can go where all your problems magically disappear. If you can't be responsible for yourself then that's on you.
What I said was the truth, that if you're involved in something and know it's roleplay that's about a show that's for adults? You are responsible for you. Everyone in the group actively tries very hard to avoid conflict unless they are feeling attacked.
I was not fighting trigger warnings, I was not telling everyone to stop, I was voicing my OPINION about how extreme trigger warning content effects rpers on the feed. That trigger warnings can be used to make people shut up because it CAN since there isn't rules or guidelines. Anyone can be triggered by anything.
I was told that I upset two people yesterday, that what I said and do are toxic for speaking about my opinion. But right in the SAME conversation?
I got a message about how awful Patty mun is.
"and you know what? She's considered toxic"
I get you want to defend your friends but when you go out of your way to BULLY other muns that's not okay.
"But it's in a more extreme and disrespectful way, I think. She seems to not want to put any boundaries on anything at all, be able to let patty do whatever she wants to other muses, not have to stop if she's making anybody uncomfortable. she continues to target single muses. she triggers people and doesn't care. a lot of people don't like her.
"She triggers people and laughs about it"
What the actual fuck man? You don't realize how messed up it is that you guys don't either get someone REMOVED from the group for being inappropriate? Either that or you're just talking amongyourself about how awful one person is compared to the rest because she's okay with content you're not. Yeah she has extremes but when there's a sub community dedicated to EXCLUDING her from doing anything then I'd be pretty irritated too!
The argument was basically that because Patty's mun liked my post that I was inherently a toxic person too.
"I think it's a toxic view to hold personal enjoyment over community comfort and safety, and Dia does that too and people seriously hate her for it. S'all I'm saying."
You know what isn't "Safe' in a community? Spreading hate, actively excluding someone because you don't like their opinions and views.
Defending someone ELSE because they get upset over something. Well some people GET upset it's natural it COMES with honestly.
I'm leaving the group, this time permanently, if you're going to criminalize someone for being LESS SENSITIVE about a topic then you are, people who are actively being honest about their views then there's really no point for me to be here. I don't need to spread hate about people who I disagree with so I ALSO don't need to deal with being criminalized for being truthful.
And for the record, here's something else South Park actively joked about. It's basically this group.
I'm out.))